In my whole 20 years, the only time I ever spend time away from home is during National Service. Yes, when I am at the age of 17! Seventeen years of being sheltered! But that was for only three months, two and a half month to be exact and I had my parents visiting me every single weekend.
And now, I am in another state 8 hours drive away for four years! It is not easy for them to visit me and vice versa.
All this while, I am always available to celebrate any occasions and religious based event with my family and friends. I always thought it was normal. After all, I have been doing it for 19 years so no biggie. Well, that was what I thought but now, it hit me. The presence of family and friends during those special occasions are what make those moments meaningful and memorable. Missing out all of those moments when I am in Penang not being able to go due to tight schedule and assignments makes me feel slightly sad and homesick.
I do have friends here in Penang but somehow the presence of your loved ones and being at home is more comforting? Penang is home but not as homey as Melaka is to me. Maybe in the few months or years ahead, Penang will be home to me just like Melaka <3
